That’s what we all think.  We think we know the qualities we want in a partner. But we don’t. In fact, the same qualities we tell friends often don’t show up in those we [...]

After recounting a disagreement with an old girlfriend, I realized my friend’s advice was right on the money. “Don’t react.  Clarify.”, she said.  It was a humbling [...]

I love to cook. Why do I love it? Because it brings me joy – the satisfaction of mastering something, the outlet it provides by creating something from scratch and just the [...]