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You’ve probably heard of the concept “cognitive dissonance” but do you know what it means? It can take many forms but it’s usually when your beliefs and behavior are at odds and that conflict [...]

We ask ourselves questions all day long. “What should I have for breakfast?” “What do I need to tackle first at work?” Pretty straightforward. But what about the big stuff? You know – career, [...]

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice” Mandy Hale, author I’m glad to see people getting married later. That was the not the case when I was in my 20’s. I grew up surrounded by [...]

Huh? That’s right, this strange period we’re all living through has actually presented new opportunities to singles. What are common pitfalls we all experience in dating? Sex? Yes. If you meet [...]

While Zoom and Skype calls are super popular right now, I found it interesting that an article in the New York Times affirmed something I suspected for a long time. Video chatting is highly [...]

If you’re a single guy, there’s a good chance you live alone.  And anyone living alone right now is dealing with some unique challenges. Where as most of society is trying to navigate [...]

Tired of COVID-19 everything all the time? Me too. What do you say we get back to a topic near and dear to all of us? And that’s talking about chicks! I had been dating someone the past three [...]

I recently read Scott Kelly’s opinion piece in the New York Times about his isolation in space and while it was interesting, I didn’t find it terribly insightful.  Among his tips were: [...]

I’m an introvert and like most introverts, I need my alone time. But I usually need it after a lot of stimulation – a night out at a loud, crowded venue; a weekend away doing a lot of activities [...]