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How to be Vulnerable

Consecutive blog posts about vulnerability – I know, it’s a lot. No one likes to feel vulnerable, much less read about it. But it’s so important! Like any difficult emotion, knowing how to [...]

The Waxy Build-up

Here’s the scenario. Year 1: You meet someone you like Year 2: You still like this person except now you’re slightly irritated by her habit of talking on the phone with her friends, for hours. [...]

Physics of the Quest

Ok, so some of my blog posts can be pretty random.  This is one of them. Flipping through the channels recently, I came across “Eat, Pray, Love” starring Julia Roberts. I know, pretty girly [...]

Why Dating is So Hard

This week’s email has a strong psychological theme.  If that’s not your thing, you may want to stop here. But I challenge you to read on.  You might find it insightful. I was reading an [...]


It happens to the best of us. We meet someone and she “knocks our socks off”.  We can’t stop thinking about her and we make up our mind – “She’s the one!” Infatuation is defined as an [...]

The Talk

This might be the most dreaded part of any new relationship. You’re still getting to know her but you reach a point where you want to know what the relationship is. In fact, “the talk” is also [...]

Maybe = No

That’s the math you should be doing when you hear something along the lines of “I don’t know what I want” from the woman you’re dating. Statements like that or “I’m confused” are essentially [...]

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