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I’m an introvert and like most introverts, I need my alone time. But I usually need it after a lot of stimulation – a night out at a loud, crowded venue; a weekend away doing a lot of activities [...]

With the COVID-19 pandemic occupying everyone’s thoughts, dating and meeting women has become harder. Or has it? You may not have as many channels to meet women right now but you still have one: [...]

Single guys without kids usually experience a wake-up call when they reach the age where most women in their age bracket DO have kids. This is especially true if the woman you’re dating has young [...]

It sounds harsh.  I know. Men, as do women, go through a probationary period during the early weeks of a relationship – just like a new job. This is a critical time and you don’t want to [...]

I don’t mean this literally. I mean taking care of your business as a man. What do I mean by that? Women are drawn to very specific things.  One of them is purpose. The definition of purpose [...]

Ok, confession.  I watch the Bachelor. Hundreds of thousands of teenage girls and I apparently make up the entire audience because few others, especially guys, will admit they even know of [...]

Have you ever noticed the common traits among men who naturally attract women? I have. One of them is boldness. They are unafraid in their approach AND interaction. And that means they will do or [...]

We all want to believe we possess the skills to thrive in social situations but that’s just not the case. Whether we had poor role models or a lack of self-esteem, many of us never developed [...]

Sounds simple, right?  Just relax when you’re stressed and you’ll be better able to handle challenging situations. But most of us don’t know how. We’ve found other things like food, TV, [...]