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Consecutive blog posts about vulnerability – I know, it’s a lot. No one likes to feel vulnerable, much less read about it. But it’s so important! Like any difficult emotion, knowing how to [...]

A few weeks back I wrote about vulnerability – more of a description than anything else. But I knew there was more to say so I went to a source who had done a lot of research in this area: Brene [...]

Here’s the scenario. Year 1: You meet someone you like Year 2: You still like this person except now you’re slightly irritated by her habit of talking on the phone with her friends, for hours. [...]

Ok, so some of my blog posts can be pretty random.  This is one of them. Flipping through the channels recently, I came across “Eat, Pray, Love” starring Julia Roberts. I know, pretty girly [...]

No, I’m not going to recommend things like reconnect with your friends or take care of yourself and get enough sleep. Blah, blah, blah. There’s plenty of that crap on the internet. What everyone [...]

This week’s email has a strong psychological theme.  If that’s not your thing, you may want to stop here. But I challenge you to read on.  You might find it insightful. I was reading an [...]

It happens to the best of us. We meet someone and she “knocks our socks off”.  We can’t stop thinking about her and we make up our mind – “She’s the one!” Infatuation is defined as an [...]

This might be the most dreaded part of any new relationship. You’re still getting to know her but you reach a point where you want to know what the relationship is. In fact, “the talk” is also [...]

That’s the math you should be doing when you hear something along the lines of “I don’t know what I want” from the woman you’re dating. Statements like that or “I’m confused” are essentially [...]