recent blog posts

That’s the math you should be doing when you hear something along the lines of “I don’t know what I want” from the woman you’re dating. Statements like that or “I’m confused” are essentially [...]

We all have them. These are the things other people say and do that really set us off. But they can be especially jarring in relationships and if not contained, can really jam you up. Here’s some [...]

The reason I ask is because with some of my clients, they don’t. To be fair, mine haven’t always been a true reflection of who I am.  It’s been a process. A process of being honest with [...]

As a single guy in his 50’s, I’ve dated a number of divorced women, most with kids, and have learned a thing or two about them.  If you’re over 40, a large percentage of women in your age [...]

Since many of my blog posts are grounded in personal experience, this one hits on something I’ve experienced recently that is worth highlighting. Equal footing. That’s what I call a relationship [...]

I’ve always been curious about this but until fairly recently, there hasn’t been a reliable source tracking the ways men and women meet. But in 2019 that changed. Lead Stanford researcher, [...]

Indeed.  Italian men have been widely acknowledged to be more charming, passionate and sexy than men from almost any other region. Women swoon for these guys so the natural question to ask [...]

With the events from January 6th still fresh in my mind, I decided to change the topic for this blog. The new topic is not about dating or women. But it IS about love. Not necessarily toward a [...]

Vulnerability in a relationship is tough for most people, but guys in particular.  Brene Brown said it best: “Being vulnerable means sharing the most important, authentic parts of yourself [...]