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Men are motivated visually. Women? For them it’s more emotional. Us guys, we feel an emotion or two at a time.  For women, they feel several emotions all the time! How does a woman attract a [...]

Why is meeting women so hard? Short answer: undeveloped skills. We’re afraid to approach women we don’t know for fear of rejection and as a result, we rarely approach anyone. So what’s a guy to [...]

No, I’m not talking about your looks.  I’m talking about how you put yourself together – the appearance you put out to the world. This can be a “thing” for some guys, maybe you. Guys in [...]

There has been a long-held supposition that 93% of effective communication is non-verbal and just 7% is verbal – the 7% rule.  This comes from a 1971 book by Albert Mehrabian titled Silent [...]

One of the first blogs I ever wrote was titled “20-Seconds of Insane Courage”.  The blog title came from the movie “We Bought a Zoo”.  Matt Damon’s character describes the moment he [...]

If you’ve ever taken a public speaking class, you learned that maintaining eye contact is crucial in establishing a connection with your audience. Same goes for meeting women. You communicate way [...]

Did you ever notice how you feel comfortable talking with certain people but not others? Did you have more in common? Was the other person a good listener? What was it? Chances are the other [...]

While men have their own issues when it comes to approaching women, it still helps to understand the woman’s perspective and how THEY want to be approached. Reddit apparently has done surveys on [...]

You probably already know the answer, right? It’s fear of rejection. Most men are afraid to approach women because they expect to bungle the interaction and get rejected as a result. So what? [...]