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Men pursue women.  That’s just the way it is. Is it harder to chase or be chased? Depends on who you ask. But one thing’s for sure.  If you’re a guy, you need to not only accept your [...]

In my last blog I wrote about the “Stink of Neediness” – how women can smell a needy guy from a mile away. But there’s another important point to make about needs and that is, if you go into a [...]

There is no greater repellant of women than a needy guy. In fact, this is the exact opposite posture you should be projecting. How do you know when you’re being needy? Here are a few examples: [...]

And it would like a word. If you’re like most guys, your profile checks a lot of boxes. It describes who you are, how you spend your time, what you do for a living. But here’s the problem. It’s [...]

It’s impossible to cover this topic in a short email.  There are so many factors that go into social value. But it is so-o-o-o important! Let’s cover a few points now and this will certainly [...]

I have always used this as a tool with clients but just recently learned of it as a self-coaching tool from the folks at endlessoptions.com That’s right.  This is a tool you can use on your [...]

If you’re like most, you probably think attraction is a matter of the heart but science plays a bigger role than you think. Your brain runs a series of complex calculations in a fleeting moment. [...]

Dating can suck. The rejection, the confusing signals – heck, just the investment of time and energy spent on dating sites can wear you out. But then you find someone. After days of texting and [...]

I’m a single guy in my 50’s and my status is no coincidence.  One of the reasons why I’ve never married is because of the women I’ve chosen to date. Dating the wrong women, and even more [...]

Last week I described the real reason men cheat. While most sources reference a varied list of causes, I boiled it down to one: Inner turmoil created by a negative judgment one makes about [...]