Single guys without kids usually experience a wake-up call when they reach the age where most women in their age bracket DO have kids.
This is especially true if the woman you’re dating has young kids.
Women with children carry a heavy load.
They work. They have carpools and homework. They cook and have play dates.
And the last thing they need is a needy, high-maintenance guy.
You better tune in to your own insecurities and keep them in check.
Because she don’t wanna hear it!
For me, I had to get over my biggest insecurity – feeling ignored.
If I sense I’m being ignored by a woman, I react and usually lash out in some way.
How do you think that went over?
Dating a woman with kids requires awareness, sacrifice and resilience – all the things she’s going through.
You’re not going to be her first priority and you have to be ok with that.
It may take her a while to return texts.
She may cancel plans a lot.
Her feelings for you may develop slower than yours for her.
You have to able to roll with all these things.
none of it is about you.