she can be a real pain in the ass.

she needs to lose some weight.

her friends don’t like me.

And on and on and on.

You can find a ton of things to measure a woman by.

That’s the special list we all keep in our head to ensure we find the right one, right?


That’s the list we keep to protect ourselves.

Your checklist for women is what keeps you from feeling disappointment, hurt, anger or some other negative emotion.

And your will to hold fast to these requirements is directly related to your desire not to feel these things.

Good luck with that.

It’s natural to have expectations for someone, particularly a woman you like and are getting close to.

But holding her to a set of criteria will never work.

She will always disappoint you.

Unless you drop the act.

That is, drop the pre-conditions.

Those are there for your protection.

And they’ll always hold you back from falling in love!

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