That’s the math you should be doing when you hear something along the lines of “I don’t know what I want” from the woman you’re dating.

Statements like that or “I’m confused” are essentially “maybe’s” when it comes to the question of whether they want to be with you.

How should you interpret these maybe’s?

As no’s.

When someone is clear on this, they know it.

If you’ve been dating a few months and you’re still hearing maybe’s, get out.

And move on.

You’re into her more than she’s into you.

And you know what else?

People don’t catch up.

The gap between you and her likely won’t close.

There are reasons she’s not committing and she either can’t face them or can’t bring herself to tell you.

By getting out, you’re taking care of YOU.

Besides, do you think there’s anything you can do to sway her?

There isn’t.

It’s up to her to figure out.

Assuming you’ve done all you can do to tell her how you feel and everything to commit to the relationship yourself, it’s out of your hands now.

Move on and find someone who knows she wants to be with you.

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