It’s impossible to cover this topic in a short email. There are so many factors that go into social value.
But it is so-o-o-o important!
Let’s cover a few points now and this will certainly be something I write about in future blogs.
First, a definition – in this context, social value is the extent to which men are sought after by women due to specific traits they possess.
What are those traits?
The list is extensive but here are a few in order of importance:
Purpose – a man who knows what he wants out of life and goes after it is wildly attractive to women.
Generate their own self-esteem – men with high social value do not depend on others for approval. They have strong convictions even when they are unpopular.
Understand power – maximizing power requires advanced social skills in order to get the most out of interactions with others.
Take responsibility – high value men take responsibility for everything that happens in their lives.
Have a growth mindset – men with a growth mindset believe they are constantly learning and improving. That means they’re not afraid to take on challenges and fail. Men with a fixed mindset believe “they are who they are.”
This is such an important topic. Men with high social value draw women to them.
They don’t chase.
They don’t NEED to chase.
They have so many options they can let women go with whom they don’t click.
And that’s the point.
High value men have a posture – a frame.
And that frame doesn’t change – no matter how a woman responds to them.
But the key here is these high value traits can be learned – they can be developed.
So what are you waiting for?