I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this.

“I’m cursed when it comes to love.”

The same people will say “I’m being punished for my misdeeds in prior relationships”. 

Do you have the same belief?

I have found those who believe in curses believe there is some kind of karmic scoreboard being kept and all their “sins” must be paid back by going through some adversity.

That’s their explanation for their “poor luck” at love.

Believing you are cursed is no different than any other belief – it becomes something your mind is determined to prove and as a result, you see evidence of it in your life.

Believing you’re cursed at love is the same as believing other self-defeating beliefs:

“Women don’t like me”

“I’m not attractive”

“I’m never going to meet anyone”

A belief is no more than a thought repeated over and over again.  The main difference between a thought and a belief is the latter is more deeply embedded in your consciousness.

Which is why it feels like your fate.

You’ve been repeating it so many times you don’t question it or try to think something else.

People who feel cursed tend to think broader, mystic powers are at play in deciding their fate.  As a result, they feel helpless to change anything.

So they do nothing.

But blame the curse.

And nothing changes.

Isn’t it time to think something else?

What do you have to lose?

Besides eliminating the “curse” from your life?

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