As a single guy, one of your responsibilities is to be aware of your surroundings at all times.  Why? Because it will help you meet more women.

As I mention in my video, being aware of your environment will provide information you can use when talking with someone new.  It can also help when someone notices you.

Most guys have experienced this.  If you haven’t, you probably missed some opportunities and didn’t even know it.

One of the only ways a woman will show her interest is by looking at you and knowing what to do in those moments will be the difference between meeting someone vs. not.

Like a cold approach, your warm approach (she’s already expressed some interest, like looking at you) will be much more successful if you have a plan.

This is not complicated.  Ninety percent of the time a woman looks at you, she’s interested.  But where do men’s thoughts typically go?  To talking themselves out of it.

“Is she looking at someone behind me?”

“Do I have something on my nose?”

Our minds gravitate to that 10% – the chance that she’s looking at me for some other reason than being interested.

Your job in these situations?

Assume it’s because she’s interested.

Ninety percent of the time that’s the case.  Aren’t those good enough odds for you?

There’s no better scenario by which to approach someone.  A warm approach like this is always preferable to a cold one.

But responding to her look is the key.  The last thing you want to do is look at her then turn away nervously, which is exactly what most men do.

You want to respond to her in a natural, confident way.  Here’s some examples:

  • Smile back at her
  • Wave
  • Point at her
  • Make a goofy face
  • Stick your tongue out
  • Draw an imaginary pistol and shoot at your target (I know, this one sounds over the top but the guy who used it is a famous pick-up artist who had a lot of success with it)

The important thing here is that it feels comfortable because you want to use it in a confident way.  You also want it to be second nature so practice it a few times in front of a mirror.  You want it to be a reflex so when the opportunity arises, it pops out of you automatically.

Her reaction will tell you all you need to know.  She’ll either look away in disgust or reinforce her interest by:

  • Smiling
  • Mirroring your action
  • Smiling and then looking away a little embarrassed
  • Raising an eyebrow or scrunching her nose/forehead because she’s intrigued but didn’t know how to react to your signal

If you get any one of these four, she wants you to come over.  The good news is you don’t have to think of anything special to say.  A simple “hello” will work fine.

When a woman looks at you, she’s usually interested.  Don’t complicate things by thinking of another reason.

Be prepared with one of the responses above or come up with one of your own.  Having this ready in your back pocket could mean the difference between meeting someone vs. lamenting another missed opportunity.


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